My mother in law asked me a question once……..an hour before opening night of a big musical I was in………………….”How do you do it? How do you get up there and sing and dance while everyone is staring at you?”
“Well…………….I’m not myself.” I answered.
I think she understood my answer.
An actress is doing her best to be another person. Sometimes the easiest portrayal to pull off is the character that is NOTHING like the actress.
I learned this at a very early age.
My mother put me into dance lessons when I was very little. I was round and chubby with red cheeks and a winning smile. But, I had no aptitude for learning dance sequences.
Ma started me so early ………………I still didn’t know my left from my right.
Ma did this so I wouldn’t be shy.
She didn’t want me to be paralyzed by shyness like she had been as a child. I had two brothers before me. I was the only girl…………..I guess Ma didn’t know that daughters aren’t born sharing every trait that their mothers possess.
I was a quiet little girl. I got bounced around by two brothers. I had an attentive father and a loving mother. My being quiet had absolutely nothing to do with shyness…………..I was born knowing my worth.
I was quiet because I was paying attention.
The first time I was read a bed time story? I lie in bed knowing I could have come up with a better ending than that.
I was born loving words. The sounds they made. The feelings they possess. How words changed with the inflection of the speaker. I wasn’t even in school yet when I knew what my lifelong fascination was going to be.
I was quiet because I was paying attention. Soaking it all in. Playing with phrases of words in my head. Making up paragraphs. Switching those paragraphs around. Telling myself stories. Knowing when I had come up with the perfect ending.
My mother just saw a shy little girl.
The dance lessons didn’t go all that well. I could tap to “Give Me A Little Kiss” if I was in the group. If asked to do the routine at home………………well, I just couldn’t. I could not for the life of me remember which step came after which step when I was alone.
My brothers made fun of this. They had a good laugh. They told my parents I was wasting their money because I retained nothing week to week.
My father frowned at them and my mother told them to take out the trash.
I was in second grade. The school sent home an announcement. There was to be a talent show at the grammar school.
My mother was more than a little shocked when I signed up for the talent show.
She whispered “Oh………….dear………………God!” when I told her.
“What are you going to do for your talent?” Ma prompted me. “You’re pretty good with a hula hoop. You could sing ‘Tammy’s In Love’………………perhaps you could recite a little poem.”
“Nope! I’m going to be Chubby Checker!” I replied.
“Oh………………..dear……………..God!” my mother repeated.
“This is going to be a fiasco!” stated my brother that was going to be forced to be in the grammar school audience.
“I just need my leotard and my tights to be clean. I can use my tap shoes with the ribbons even though I’m not going to tap. I suppose you don’t want to buy me Jazz Shoes for one show?” I wondered.
“Oh……………….dear………………….God!” my mother whispered yet again as she squeezed her eyes shut and shook her head. She tried to wake herself up from this nightmare but she wasn’t asleep.
What was I up to?
I was trying to wake up my mother in a different way. I was going to show her that I wasn’t shy. I wasn’t about to be signed up for any other classes because she was trying to bring me ‘out of my shell’.
I was willing to win a talent show so she would leave me the heck alone.
So, I became Chubby Checker.
This little pale girl from Connecticut had studied him quite often on shows like American Bandstand. My impression was pretty spot on.
The day of the talent show arrived. The front row of the audience was made up of bored mothers knitting away at little sweaters. They nodded to friends a few chairs away without messing up their counting.
I was next to last. I straightened my little leotard. I pulled up my tights so that the crotch was where it was designed to be. I tested out my tap shoes on the wooden floor of stage right.
Tap shoes are slippery. I didn’t want to kill myself.
I went up to the Daddy volunteer that was in charge of the record player.
I whispered to him.
“I want it loud! I want the music to knock them out of their chairs!” I instructed.
He patted me on the head and laughed.
“You got it, cutie! Knock em dead!” he said with no confidence that I actually would.
“Go!” I told him.
He went.
I wasn’t going to be the kid that stood on the stage awkwardly waiting two minutes for someone to finally put the right record on the player.
COME ON BABY AND DO THE TWIST
COME ON BABY AND DO THE TWIST
TAKE ME BY MY LITTLE HAND AND GO LIKE THIS……………
I hit that stage in all my pudgy glory. My dimples had dimples. Even my elbows had dimples. Every mother out there wanted to take a bite out of me. I shimmied to the left and I shimmied to the right. I shook my shoulders and twisted down. I went so low I slapped the floor.
Then I took it down the stairs into the audience.
I got all those mothers to put down their knitting and twist with me.
They sang along with me……………….they all knew the words.
The record stopped just as I had the whole audience on their feet.
I shouted “One More Time!” to the Daddy on the record player.
And, we did it all again.
I won the contest. My prize was a coupon for four free ice cream cones at our local hot spot; Shady Glen.
I walked home with my mother and my brother.
My brother wasn’t all that surprised. He had seen my Chubby Checker impression in the basement when he was trying to shoot pool.
But, my mother?
She was mystified.
“What the hell just happened?” she wanted to know. “You’re so shy! How did you do it? How did you get up there and sing and dance while everyone was staring at you?”
“Well, I’m not myself. I was Chubby Checker. It’s just a different way to tell a story.” I answered.
“You’re going to be an actress?” she asked the clouds in a mystified way.
“Maybe……..but, I don’t want any more dance lessons. Singing lessons would be great. But, what I really want is a typewriter.” I answered.
“Oh……………dear……………….God!” was what I expected for an answer.
Instead, Ma said “I can make that happen!”