“You’ll forget the minute your feet hit the floor.” the beautiful girl said. “That’s the way it’s supposed to be. The way it has to be right now.”
It had been a long night. I was back in my girlhood bedroom. A soft lamp glowed in the corner. The sheer white curtains swagged in the windows. The window shades drawn against the darkness were a little lopsided.
Just the way they used to be.
The teenager sat at the end of my bed. Her feet were drawn up underneath her. She leaned against my book case and smiled at me.
“You’ve enjoyed my company. I know you have. We’ve laughed and told stories. But, you have a few questions. You can ask them you know. I won’t promise to answer all of them. But, you can ask.” she said as she threw her long auburn hair over her shoulder.
She leaned in with interest. She really wanted to know what I wanted to know.
“Who are you?” I asked tentatively. I really wanted to know but was a little afraid of the answer.
“Oh, you know who I am. You’ve missed me. I have to say I haven’t missed you at all. Oh, don’t go and get your feelings hurt. I haven’t missed you because I’m always with you. You know that now.” she proclaimed as she stretched her long arms over her head.
Alright. That wasn’t the answer I was expecting.
“I know you? You do look familiar. But, no. I’ve never seen you before.” I said quietly. The last sentence sputtered out as I looked into her green eyes. Her green eyes that looked just like mine.
“A little confused, are we?” she said with a laugh. “Take a look into that mirror on the bookshelf. You’re not talking to yourself. You haven’t lost it. We look very similar. But, completely different don’t you think? We do have the same eyes. And, you can thank me later for the nose. But, your father had a lot to do with the shape of your face.” she said.
It was beginning to dawn on me. It had been a long night just sitting there talking. Getting to know each other. Listening to each other’s stories.
I finally got it.
“Ma?” I whispered in her direction.
“Darlene?” she whispered back.
And, then she threw her head back as she laughed at the ceiling.
“Boo!” she barked out with another laugh.
I blinked at her………the beautiful girl curled up at the bottom of my bed. I had missed her every day since my 40th birthday. When she went and died on me. I blinked and blinked the tears out of my eyes.
“Oh, don’t go crying on me now. Didn’t we have a great night? Didn’t we talk and talk? Didn’t we learn all about each other? Your questions have been answered. You won’t remember asking them……………..but, the answers are here.” she said as she touched my temple.
I had just seen my fourteen year old self in that little mirror on the bookshelf. The young woman in front of me was about eighteen.
“Ma? What kind of game are you playing at? You go and die. You don’t visit me in my dreams. Nothing! Nothing! No signs. No nothing! You just go and leave me without a goodbye. You don’t check in…………….where in the HELL have you been!” I yelled.
My feet almost hit the floor as I went to get out of the bed. You really need to be standing to yell as loudly was I wanted to.
“Uh, uh, uh! Don’t let your feet hit the floor!” she said with a chuckle. “It’s all over the minute your feet hit the floor!”
I drew back and sat on my end of the bed. At this point we looked like bookends sitting at opposite ends of the twin bed. The bed that was covered by the quilt that hasn’t existed in thirty years.
“Okay, I’ll ask the questions then.” said the beautiful girl.
“What’s with the dust covering that typewriter? You gave up dolls and wanted a typewriter. You told us that you had to write. You had to tell your stories. What’s with the dust? Don’t you think it’s about time?” she wanted to know.
“You have books in you. Books that people will actually want to read.” she added with a laugh.
“I have been writing.” I complained. “It’s taken over my body. I started and I can’t stop. But, I use a computer now. Maybe you don’t know what those are but………….that typewriter doesn’t exist now. I sold it twenty years ago at a yard sale.”
“I know all about your stories. I read them all. Sometimes I read right over your shoulder. You’ve gotten your father just right. All the ladies have fallen in love with your Daddy. He’s gotten a big kick out of that you know. ” she said with a soft chuckle as she got comfortable hugging a pillow shaped like a dog.
That pillow hasn’t existed for forty years now.
“You’re still getting to know me in your stories. Oh, sometimes you get me just right. Sometimes you don’t. But, don’t stop trying. The answers to the future do come in remembering the past. Remembering who you are. Who you used to be. Wondering who I really was before you came along.” she said as she scooted towards the edge of the bed.
“Recognition.” she said as she was about to stand up.
“Recognition?” I asked.
“Go back and find it. You’ve already written it. It was so late at night…………it came out of you when you were half asleep. Recognition. You got it just right. You knew yourself. You understood exactly who I was. The shortest story you’ve ever written…………..you made every word count. You blew the dust off of that typewriter.” she said proudly as she stood up next to the quilted bed.
“Just remember………….I am with you every time that you write about me. Even if you get it wrong. I’m standing right next to you. Your mother would never leave you, Darlene. It’s an impossibility. I’ll always be with you.” counseled the beautiful young woman.
“You won’t remember this for a long time. Not until you come across that story. Recognition is what you called it. Don’t let your feet hit the floor!” she said laughingly as she disappeared from the wood paneled room.
I came across that story today…………..I hardly remember writing it. A writer doesn’t say this very often……….but, I got it just right.
And, tomorrow when I awake from my dreams? I will sit at the side of my bed. And, I will think. I will remember. I will grab the snatches of my dreams in both hands before I let my feet hit the floor.
And, Ma? I have written that first book.
Recognition
I was about 14. I was at the kitchen table eating crackers and peanut butter with my mother. She was telling me some story about herself and one of her sisters. She threw back her head and she laughed. She laughed so hard she picked up the dish towel sitting on the table and threw it in my face. She threw it to tease me. Like I was a sister and not a daughter. To aggravate me and it make me laugh too.
I stopped laughing and stared at her.
“What? What are you thinking right now. Your face is so weird!” my mother exclaimed.
Perhaps I couldn’t explain it well. But I tried. I’m still trying today.
“I just realized. I just realized you’re not just ‘Mom’. You’re a person. You were Ellie before I was born. You were little Ellie in Worcester. You were Ellie to your sisters and brothers. You’ve been Ellie all along. You’d be Ellie even if I didn’t exist. Even if I’d never been born.” I whispered in astonishment.
She stopped laughing and fooling with me. She got quiet.
“You just discovered that?” my mother asked in a quiet voice.
“Yes.” I answered just as quietly.
We stared at each other over the kitchen table.
“Even without me, you would be you. You never needed me to be you.” I said.
She looked at me and said “I wouldn’t be me without you. Never, ever, without you.”