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I forced my father to relax on vacation.
He had bought us a camp on Lake Champlain. He had six weeks of vacation that he spread out over the summer. Most of his time up in Vermont was spent working. He mowed. He weed whacked. He worked on the roof. He touched up paint. He built a shed.
I helped here and there. But, I was a teenager. I also worked at home. I’d had a paper route since the age of twelve. I worked tobacco when I was fourteen. When I was sixteen a got a regular job.
I never lost track of the thought that when I was in Vermont? I was supposed to be relaxing.
I’d hand him nails to build a shed. I handed him lumber. I’d tote and I’d lift. I would deliver cold drinks. I’d put sandwiches into his hands.
I’d point to the lake and make him go swimming with me. I’d throw a towel over his shoulder and I’d start to walk down the dirt road to the beach. He’d throw his hammer and follow me.
I’d spend the next day shoveling gravel into a wheel barrow. I’d try to keep control of the weight that was too heavy for me. I’d dump the gravel almost where he wanted it while he was contouring the driveway.
I’d bang into the house. I’d come out with two Popsicles. I’d stick one into his mouth and one into my own. I’d put on a sprinkler and I’d run through it. I’d pick it up after I was good and wet and I’d aim it at him. He whoop and he’d holler. He’d laugh and run away from the spray. Until he was good and wet. And, then he’d just throw his head back and enjoy the cold water.
One morning he grabbed the wheel barrow and asked me to follow him. I did. He started down the dirt road that led to the beach. I ran around him and sang a silly song. I jumped in front of him and sat down in the wheel barrow and made him give me a ride.
Something tells me that he didn’t mind at all.
I had to get out and walk when we got to the rocky beach. Our beach wasn’t made of sand. It was made out of small slate rocks and pebbles. He headed past Big Rock. He went right up to the face of the cliffs.
He banged his fist on the cliff. The rocks were like scales there. Like the back of a dragon that is molting.
“Go for the big ones, Little Girl. Your mother wants rocks to make a flower garden at the edge of the driveway we just put in. One load should do it. But, they can’t be small. Go for the big ones.” he said.
I took off my sandals. They had a good heel on them. He pointed and I smacked the cliff. He used his big hands that picked potatoes as a boy to dislodge them.
We filled up the wheel barrow in no time at all.
We got back to the driveway. He handed me a shovel and pointed to the edge of the driveway. It was a shady spot. My mother was going to have to plant begonias or some other shade loving plant.
I jumped on the shovel and nothing happened. The dirt was hard. The lake covered this area every winter and receded in the spring. It was like cement. I jumped again. Nothing happened.
My father took the shovel away from me.
“I’m sorry, Little Girl. Sometimes I forget. I work you like a boy. Why don’t you do into the house and bring me a cup of coffee. Maybe a cookie.” he said
I grabbed the shovel back.
“I don’t think so.” I said. I used the edge of the shovel like a pick. Instead of digging I started banging away at the hard soil. Daddy disappeared and came back from his new shed with a pick. He handed that to me. I dug about half of the bed and let him finish the rest.
I thought we were done.
He handed me the shovel as he wiped his face with an old handkerchief. He nodded to the wall of rock behind the camp.
“You know where the spring is? The soil under neath it is rich. It’s black with nutrients. Shovel some of it up and put it in the wheel barrow. We’ll mix it up with the soil that is already here. This stuff is too sandy. One load of the dark stuff from under the spring should do it.” he said.
I was almost out of steam. But, I did it. I said hello to the mosquitoes and filled up the wheel barrow quickly with black soil.
It was only 11 a.m. and I was pooped out.
“Daddy? We’re on vacation.” I said.
“Yes…………….we are. What’s your point, Little Girl?” he asked.
“Well, Mom hasn’t left that camp since we got here. She’s in there polishing silver ware. Because she can’t handle mosquitoes and spiders and bats. She won’t go to the beach because she’s ten pounds heavier than last year. And, God forbid the neighbors should notice a dimple on her thigh. There’s a lake out there and she ignores it because someone might see her in a swim suit and get judging. She tells me all the time “Oh, who the hell is looking at you?” when I spend too much time in the mirror. Well, who the hell is looking at her?” I petered out.
“I’m waiting. I still don’t know where you’re going with this.” my father said.
“It’s her vacation too, Daddy. You’ve got to get her out of that camp. You’ve got to give her a change of view. I don’t know what or how. But, she deserves a break too.” I said as I got up and slapped the dirt off of the bottom of my short shorts.
“Well, we do have to go into town for supplies. Maybe we could stop for an ice cream cone.” my father tried.
“Oh, God, Daddy. You have got to do better than that. You keep this up? With the roof repairs. The shed building. The new driveways. The mowing. The weed whacking. Someday she’s just going to refuse to come up here.” I explained.
He sat down on the stairs to think. The poor man did nothing but work. He worked for fun. He was never going to come up with an idea on his own.
I grabbed the stack of mail that he had collected from down the hill. The mail box in Vermont gave us circulars. It was kind of a treat for my Dad…………that mail box in Vermont. No one sent him bills to that address.
I looked at a penny saver circular while we sat on the stairs. He sat there thinking. I sat there letting the breeze off of the lake dry the sweat under my hair.
“Here we go, Daddy. There is a Farmer’s Market in St. Albans tomorrow. It’s in that park right across from that old fashioned department store. You know. The park with the flowers and the cannons? We can take Mom to the Farmer’s Market.” I said in triumph.
“What’s a Farmer’s Market?” my Daddy asked.
“A beautiful park. Under the big maple trees. People rent a table. They sell their stuff. Fresh fruits. Tomatoes picked that day. Green beans right off of the vines. Maple syrup. Home made jellies and jams. Cakes. Pastries. Donuts. Mom can also buy the plants she needs for her flower bed. It says here that there are tables full of antiques. They have a Bring and Buy sale right next to the Farmer’s Market. Just think, Daddy. Plants. Fruits. Vegetables. Crap we don’t need. And! Silver Queen corn on the cob.” I ended with.
I always knew how to sweet talk my Daddy. I always knew to save the best for last.
“Silver Queen Corn? I thought that wasn’t ready until August?” he whispered.
I had him.
“And we need a party Daddy. You need to throw a little Welcome To the Neighborhood party for yourself. Cheese. Crackers. Grapes. Beer. Wine. Cards. You need to invite a few couples that love to play cards.” I said.
My mother lived to play cards.
“A party? We don’t know anyone here!” he exclaimed.
“Oh, Daddy. We walk to the beach. Everyone comes out of their camps to wave to us. They yell hello. We see them sitting on their porches playing cards. They’re looking to be your friends. You just won’t stop working long enough to notice. Give me five minutes and I can get you guests for a card party. Saturday night.” I said as I got up and whipped my messy hair up into a neat ponytail.
“What will your mother say?” he asked quietly as he still stared at the Farmer’s Market advertisement in the paper.
“Oh, God, Daddy. She’ll go into a five minute panic. Then she’ll realize the camp has never looked better. She can’t get it any cleaner. Give her five minutes with these people and she’ll be their new best friend. She just pretends to be shy. She’s going to love it. ” I assured him.
“Well, I’ll think about it.” he said as he eyed his wheel barrow again.
“Nope! No time like the present.” I said as I walked down the dirt road towards the neighbor’s camps.
He didn’t follow me.
I knocked on the blue camp’s door. A nice lady came out and called me by name. I looked up the stairs and smiled at her.
“We were wondering if you and your husband are doing anything Saturday night? Around 7 pm? It’s time my parents stopped working and had some fun. I noticed you all like to play cards. My parents love to play cards. Are you free?” I asked.
“This Saturday night at 7pm? Yes. We’d love to come over and get to know your parents better. We do love to play cards. Tell your mother that I’ll bring a dip and chips. And, a strawberry shortcake. I’ve got beautiful strawberries in the freezer. Will it just be us?” she asked.
“Well, I was about to go across the road to the green trailer and ask that couple also. I’ve noticed them playing cards on their porch a lot.” I said to the friendly lady that was going to bring me strawberry shortcake.
“Oh! Good! That’s my brother and sister in law. I’m sure they’d love to get to know your parents too. And, they do love to play cards. This sounds like so much fun! ” she said. I’d never seen a fifty year old lady clap her hands together before.
I went across to the green trailer and got a similar reception. That couple was itching to play poker and they told me they would provide the gin and tonic.
I wouldn’t tell my mother about that…………………gin sounded too wild for the Ellie I knew.
The next morning found the three of us in the station wagon headed for St. Albans.
My mother sat in the front seat. She was wearing red capri pants and a red and white checked shirt. I don’t know why I remember that, but I do. She was just so beautiful.
We drove down different dirt roads than we were used to. She noticed we weren’t going down the regular path to town.
“Where are we going, Ralph?” she asked as she clutched her purse.
My mother wasn’t a fan of change.
“We’re going to a Farmer’s Market in St. Albans.” my Daddy replied.
My mother turned around and stared at me.
“What is a Farmer’s Market?” she asked me.
“That park with the flowers and the cannons, Mom. Across from the department store. And that little brick church? People rent tables and sell their stuff. Fruit. Vegetables. Pastries. Plants for your flower bed. Syrup. Jam. Junk. Quilts. Handmade pillows. Doilies. Dolls. Lemonade. Candy. Cupcakes. Stuff I can only imagine. You’re going to love it.” I told her.
“Silver Queen Corn.” said my father as he put on his blinker and took a left.
It was a beautiful day under the shade of ancient trees. I took out a paper back book and leaned against one of those ancient trees. It was home base. I had a fresh lemonade and a still warm blueberry muffin. My parents bought box upon box of stuff and sat it next to me under the tree while I read a bodice ripper romance novel.
There were begonias. Tomatoes. Green beans. A red white and blue quilt. Hand crocheted pillows.
My father was out hunting down his Silver Queen Corn when my mother paused next to me under the tree.
I looked up to find her just smiling and gazing around her.
She sighed.
“This is Vermont.” she said. “Oh, how beautiful. Look, Darlene. It’s just like a Norman Rockwell painting.”
I looked and knew she was right. The church at the edge of the park looked busy. The church bells chimed. People flowed into the door of the perfect white entry way. From where we were sitting we could see a white rock path lined with geraniums leading to the door way.
My mother caught her breath as she listened to the bells chime.
“Why, don’t you go to church, Ma? I’ll sit with the stuff. Daddy and I will wait here for you. Why don’t you go to church?” I asked her the question she wanted to hear.
She looked at the summer perfection all around her. She looked down at me.
“Go, Ma. Go say your prayers in that church in the middle of a Norman Rockwell painting. You may never get this chance again.” I said quietly to her.
She left me. She walked across the park. A few dancing children bumped into her. She patted heads and intently walked towards the white walk way surrounded by the red and pink of perfect geraniums.
And, that’s the way I think of my parents now. My beautiful mother dressed in red and white walking into the perfect New England Church to thank God for the blessings in her life. My father that worked so hard ……………and only took days of rest to entertain the woman he loved……………in search of Silver Queen Corn.